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#psychictipoftheday

This topic continues to come up amongst teachers and healers in my community and I see a polarizing going on that is not helpful. So, let's talk about it.
There really is no such thing as an energy vampire. When you experience something parasitic, that's where you're losing your space (space = aura/energy) to the shattered parts of the whole (collective/the all that is) and that illuminates where you are not strong energetically. Which means you need some new tools and continued healing and integration.

We often call this "drawing boundaries". Which is really just you defining your energetic space- (getting your aura back around you) And that's legit- draw your boundaries- but let's not pretend there is an enemy outside yourself. You are the all that is.
Sweet lightworker, Heal. Integrate. Ask to learn what you don't know yet. Find new teachers. Work new tools. Get stronger. The whole point of being a "light-worker" is so you can sit in inky black darkness and bring the light. We are kinda useless otherwise.

So....When you can sit in darkness comfortably and keep being the complexity of love that you are, that's when you're light working. That moment is also the end of spiritual bypassing.

XO

E

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I've been meaning to post this gem for a while! Last summer I had a great chat with my fellow healing professional Rachel Alaia. In it, I gave a beautiful womb meditation with some psychic tools. To this day, the magick we created in that meditation continues to delight and inspire me.

Enjoy XO

E

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I spent a lot of my 20's pushing myself to get along with people who rubbed my energy the wrong way. I didn't want to be too sensitive, judge them unfairly or project my shit on them. I would rack my brain trying to figure out what it was about them (or really me) that I didn't like/trust/ or felt repelled by.
That approach never ended well.... not valuing your intuition rarely ends well.
As the great mirror of relating does- They would eventually show me why something felt off- and then I would spend so much energy trying to sort out my own pain around it after their exit.

In my 30's: homie don't play that game. It leaks my energy and I need my energy to continue to lead and teach in the world. Contrary to what I used to think I'm not someone who can't get along. I like who I like. It's obvious and instantaneous and it's okay that I work like that. I'm a loner only child with a fierce inner voice that I've learned to trust first and ask questions later.
And I'll tell you what- it's working out for all parties. Aside from it being self-love in action, it's also the most neutral compassionate thing to do for others. They don't need me snickering or bristling in my energy at their thoughts, feelings or offerings in the world. That's just being shitty.
So I take space- to honor them- to honor me.

I offer this as permission to take space from anyone who feels crappy to you
-including me. If what im offering here isn't landing, if it's annoying you- leave. It's not going to hurt anyone's feelings. We don't have to be nice girls, just go. You can always come back later when it feels right.

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Psychic tip of the day: re- relaxation and healing the world 🌎💆🏾

When your body says rest. REST.
Most people don't ever give themselves permission to slow down, so let's illuminate what rest isn't.

Being at rest does not look like:
-being paralyzed as your mind obsesses about how much you should be doing
- thinking there is something wrong with you because you need a lot of sleep or relaxation
- feeling bad because of other people's opinions about how you should live your life and run your day.
Listen to your body. Sleep, nap, chill, mellow out, rest.
If you were a psychic teacher and could see the amount of energy you were transmuting and the amount of "work" you were actually doing while resting- you would never question the need again. So take it from a psychic teacher.
This culture tells you to constantly go, do, power up and get it- it's still extremely male (and not the healed and powerful kind) it's just now learning the value of slowing down.

Now listen carefully because you need to understand that you're healing the world when you choose to take a nap rather than push. It is through your understanding the value of rest (and not shaming yourself) that you reprogram yourself from the patriarchal yang grind and heal the world by anchoring more of the feminine. Receptivity, passivity, rest, Magick, trust, flow, ease. You will also find your own healed masculine and the power of aligned action.
I see so many people making the mistake of resting while torturing themselves thinking they need to be doing more- stop. Don't give yourself shit about giving yourself what you know you need. Trust your lazy. Trust the slow down. Deprogram.
#trustyourlazy #healingtheworld #takeafuckingnapyo #naplife

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#psychictipoftheday it was one of those days where there were 777 synchronicities and I wish I could tell you a zillion stories about how the universe was dancing with me as it weaved all my desires together into mental, emotional, and physical form. But what I really want you to know is that I'm so angry and feisty and fierce right now too. I want to scream at all the silly "white" people. They're my people.. but I'm struggling with how to engage with their ignorant fuckery and be effective. I've been them- but right now I hate them.

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The single biggest mistake I see people make is this: when they are moved by something, they tell themselves they can't have it....
It's the most destructive thing, to have a moment of purity clarity and inspiration and then squash it by your own hand, or thought, or belief.
I need to ask you: Please... Don't do this. When you get a yes. Just tell the no to fuck off, and keep saying YES!!! Revel in everything that makes you feel expanded and don't contract too soon after the expansion. Stay open. Stay in yes a little bit longer. Practice. Practice. Practice.

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#psychicnutrition Tip of the Day: before you lose your shit over something, ask yourself 3 things: when was the last time I ate? Have I had enough water? Do I need rest right now?
Often times, the body is trying to tell you something, but you're so externally focused that you mistakenly think it's outside of you. Breathe, check in with your body, gather your energy and listen. Once you get the communication, do what it says and THEN refocus on the situation at hand. #bodywisdom #yourbodyisananimal

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Self Love.... in trying, triggering, highly impassioned times.

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Greetings Family,

I had a lengthy dinner conversation with my partner yesterday about the psychology and energy of the police force. I was outraged, like we all are, to realize.. THIS SHIT IS STILL FUCKING HAPPENING. What the actual fuck?! -------------Every time these murders occur, my humanity feels every ounce of it; I see all sides of it and all know all of the pain. Once I get the news, I tend to pull away and process it for at least 24 hours. There is always a moment- in all the social processing- when I need to cry and grieve for how we are choosing to heal these wounds. As a professional healer, I know the healing process is messy, painful and very very necessary when attempting to correct deep wounding. However, a healing proce...

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